Grief is a Reservoir

a person holding up a book with the title grief is retribution

In order to explore the experience of grief from new perspectives, I sent an email to a group of friends and family asking them specific questions about the grief/loss they’ve faced in their own lives. Questions included: ● What appeals to your senses when you’re in times of loss? ● What’s calming in terms of touch, smell, sound etc ● Do you have any rituals or traditions that help you cope with loss? ● Personify grief - what does it look like? ● What’s a good container for your grief? ● Reimagine grief: what would it mean to be completely cared for in times of grief? What do you need? I compiled the answers to these questions, along with imagery, into Grief is a Reservoir; a 26 page book. With this project, I was exploring my own grief while also being in conversation with my loved ones about their experiences. I was especially interested in the question: What if grief was a more communal practice?

mike delgado's email to mike delgado
a black and white photo of a man kissing a woman
a picture of a tree and a picture of water
a black and white photo of a tree and water
a photo of a hand reaching out to the sky
a screen shot of a laptop with a message on it
a person walking down a path in the woods
a photo of a shrine with flowers and trees
a screen shot of a desktop with a sunset view
a picture of a house in a field at sunset
my mother dreams of her grandmother nothing but how she sees her tears dripping down her cheeks
a person driving a car with a message on the dashboard
ask laura about loss and she describes a wide wave, no one else around
a photo of a sunset with a square in the middle
a blue sky with the words, dream of my great grandfather for looking for lost house in the dark
again i see them in my sleep this time i cross over, love overtaken has returned